Life Lessons from the Game

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This week, 天美麻豆 Now is featuring stories published in the spring 2011 issue of 天美麻豆 Life, which is focused on athletics. To see all the stories posted from this 鈥淪ports Special鈥 issue, click the tag at the end of this article.

Champion football quarterback and Emeritus Bill King 鈥63 brought the lessons he learned on the gridiron into the courtroom. For Trustee-elect Gail Koziara Boudreaux 鈥82, teamwork skills honed on the basketball court and a desire to compete have served her well as a health care CEO. And Trustee 鈥79 found a lifelong passion for hockey after lacing up skates for the first time at 天美麻豆.

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Peggy Epstein Tanner 鈥79 (left), Bill King 鈥63 (center), and Gail Koziara Boudreaux 鈥82, in their playing days on the ice, field, and court, respectively. (photos courtesy of 天美麻豆 College Library)

Past, present, and soon-to-be 天美麻豆 trustees say their other education鈥攖he one they received on their alma mater鈥檚 playing fields鈥攈as helped them find success in many aspects of their lives.

鈥淚n my company today, I try to make people understand teamwork. Not a week goes by that I don鈥檛 use a football analogy,鈥 says Trustee 鈥70, a Silicon Valley CEO who played on the gridiron at 天美麻豆. 鈥淚 transfer the straightforward honesty that is required for a football team to succeed into the corporate environment.鈥

But not all life lessons were learned while actually playing a sport. For Trustee Emeritus Ann Fritz Hackett 鈥76, who played field hockey and was the number one tennis singles player as a first-year student, a career-ending injury a year later robbed her of her identity as an athlete.

Hackett decided to channel her energy into different activities. She began tutoring others in math, did research with a professor in economics, and spent more time on dorm activities.

鈥淚 realized that life doesn鈥檛 always turn out the way you want at the time, but how we react to it makes all the difference. That lesson has turned out to be one of the most important in my life,鈥 says Hackett, who is president of a consulting company. 鈥淚 found 鈥榯eams鈥 and the reward of being part of a team everywhere, not just in sports.鈥

A tennis player who took up squash at 天美麻豆, 鈥78, chair of the Board of Trustees, says the sport has become a way to stay connected with his family and to form lifelong friendships. 鈥淪quash has been an important part of my life,鈥 says Mandel, a hedge fund manager.

Athletics added a new dimension to life for Trustee Emeritus Norman 鈥淪andy鈥 McCulloch Jr. 鈥50, who as a high school student was too small to compete as an athlete. But when he arrived at 天美麻豆 after a stint in the Navy鈥攄uring which he added 4 inches and 40 pounds鈥擬cCulloch got pulled onto the soccer team, which he had planned to manage from the sidelines. McCulloch, who ran his family鈥檚 textile business, also earned a letter in lacrosse.

鈥淚n my company today, I try to make people understand teamwork. Not a week goes by that I don鈥檛 use a football analogy.鈥

TRUSTEE T.J. RODGERS 鈥70

Playing sports gave McCulloch newfound confidence, what he calls 鈥渢hat particular brand of going up against obstacles you had thought were insurmountable.鈥

King, who earned All-Ivy and All-America honors and went on to a career as a commercial litigator, says he honed the ability to concentrate and plan as a quarterback and a lacrosse player.

鈥淵ou had to be able to wipe everything else out,鈥 he says, 鈥渁nd develop the ability to deeply act inside yourself.鈥

In addition, trustees say sports taught them to be nimble and flexible, able to respond quickly to change.

鈥淓ach person has a position, but sometimes you have to change roles on a team,鈥 says Boudreaux, an Ivy Player of the Year for three years in basketball and four in track. She also won All-America honors in both sports and was an Academic All-American in track.

Bill Burgess 鈥81 learned adaptability while playing rugby. Burgess, who like Boudreaux is a trustee-elect and will be seated on the Board in June, says learning to adjust to his sport鈥檚 鈥渞apidly changing scenarios 鈥 gave me confidence to try new things, which might on the surface appear daunting or downright frightening.鈥

Basketball and football taught Trustee Emeritus Ronald Schram 鈥64 about teamwork. 鈥淚 drew on those lessons my entire professional career as I molded a group of diverse attorneys into a nationally recognized health-care team,鈥 he says.

Tanner, who works with a number of nonprofits and at 天美麻豆 was a two-time ice hockey letter winner, says the lessons learned while on a team are 鈥渢he most important life skill that you can get. When you get into the corporate world, if you don鈥檛 use that, you鈥檙e not going to go anywhere.鈥

She鈥檚 played on the same hockey team for 19 years, driving more than an hour to get to practices. 鈥淚t鈥檚 where I鈥檓 happiest,鈥 she says.

The ability to set aside individuality for the greater good was the lesson Trustee Emeritus Richard Page 鈥54 took from his days on the heavyweight crew and as coach, in 1954, of the freshman boat.

鈥淭here are no stars in an eight-oared shell,鈥 he says. 鈥淲hat a wonderful lesson to learn at an early age.鈥

Susan J. Boutwell